Positivity

 I think I was born a pessimist. I've always seen the glass half empty. What I hope is the half way point in life I'm trying to change that . I want to focus on the happy moments and learn from the difficult instead of dwelling on the negative and the what ifs. Is it possible to meditate my way into this? Time will tell. Meditation calls. 

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