Uncomfortable

 I'm so uncomfortable in my body. I feel back fat, and thighs rubbing together. I've never been this big and no matter what I do I just keep packing on the pounds.


I realized I checked out of shelf care for the last 2.5 years, but without a break I don't know how to reverse this.


I'm devastated and want someone to care for me and there is no one but me

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